If you’re a woman with a man who premature ejaculates then you might well be wondering: what are the different ways to make a man last longer? What premature ejaculation remedies might he be able to use? Here are some helpful tips and advice for you to help your man go from being a quick shooter to a marathon man.
This is a technique where you can help your man directly. When your partner feels too aroused and likely to ejaculate soon, you can grab his penis (he can do it himself but it works better if you do) by taking the glans between your fingers and thumb. Use your first two fingers on top and your thumb underneath and squeeze hard for 5 seconds.
Don’t be afraid to squeeze very hard. He won’t feel any pain. The blood in his penis will escape quickly and he will lose his erection. This means that there is no longer any imminent danger that he will ejaculate. You can then help him to get aroused again before resuming penetrative sex.
This method is quite unique in that you can get involved to help him. Many other methods are not like this at all. The downside is that there is some interruption to sex while carrying it out.
Coital Alignment Technique
This is a specific sex position that you are going to love. Your man should get on top of you in a missionary style position. He needs to enter you and then remain inside you. Instead of pulling in and out, he should try to go for a more “up and down” motion. His pubic bone should rub against your clitoris.
The action of this technique is more of a rocking motion than anything else. You can also play your part. When done properly, there is a kind of reciprocating push and pull between both partners in synchronicity. As well as giving you great pleasure, he’ll also find himself lasting much longer than before.
Give Him Support
More important than any specific technique or remedy is that your man has your support. A man prematurely ejaculates because he has some form of negative thought in the bedroom. This results in an evolutionary response of premature ejaculation which was really designed to help a man inseminate his partner if he feared that there was a predator lurking nearby or some similar other threat.
Your man is experiencing these negative thoughts and emotions in the bedroom and it could be for a variety of reasons. He may feel a weight of expectation to please you. He may feel that he is not good enough for you. He may be too heavily focused on his previous experiences of premature ejaculation. He may have self-image problems.
Whatever it is, he is letting negative thoughts get the better of him. You should tell him that you are going to support him. And don’t hesitate to compliment him, even if it means telling him a few white lies. Tell him that he is a stud, that he makes you feel amazing etc.
A prematurely ejaculating man is like a striker in a soccer team who is lacking in confidence. The longer he goes without a goal, the more likely his goalless streak is likely to extend even further. When he gets back in his stride, he’ll be on fire again.
The same goes for a man with premature ejaculation. He is actually capable of having great sex all the time, it’s just that his own negative thoughts are preventing him from doing it. There are no other obstacles. Support him and tell him he is no less of a man for prematurely ejaculating. Never, ever judge him negatively, make derogatory comments or do anything else that will just make him feel worse.
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